Thanks to Jennifer Manlowe, I’ve heard of two researchers who’ve got a new book called Why Women Have Sex. I haven’t read the book itself, just the UK newspaper story about it.
The story claims the researchers have deteremined there are exactly 237 reasons for a (hetero) woman to do the sex—no more, no less.
You know most of the common reasons—lust, love, baby-making, social-ladder climbing, cash, barter, kicks, comfort, novelty, submission, empowerment, celebration, consolation, getting/keeping/dumping a guy, because all the other girls are doing it, because parents/teachers/preachers say not to, and so forth.
But let’s imagine some reasons that might land a little further down on the list of 237, some of the less-common reasons for sex:
- He cooked a really great dinner.
- He wore something so ugly, she had to get it off of him.
- There was nothing good on TV.
- The only good DVDs at the store were taken.
- Pilates just gets too repetitive.
- That church retreat weekend made her feel too clean.
- To crowd out the noise of the neighbors/kids/voices in her head.
- She wanted to try out a Sleep Number bed and he had one.
- She wanted to prove he wasn’t gay.
- She wanted to prove she wasn’t gay.
- She wanted to prove she didn’t have implants.
- She wanted to prove the rumors about men of a certain profession/ethnic group/nationality/weight class.
- Hey, why not?
Then there are the “reasons” that would fall off the 237 altogether. For instance, I’m pretty sure no woman has ever had sex with a man just because he used a certain brand of deodorant body spray.